This time of the year I often look back to the many vastly different environments in which we have celebrated the festive season over the years.
I have many warm and wonderful memories of the Christmases of my childhood in Scandinavia. We always went to the forest to cut the tree ourselves, often in knee-deep snow. This was usually done in the morning of Christmas Eve or earliest the day before. The tree was then decorated during the afternoon and the live candles were lit in the evening – under strict supervision. The flickering lights were beautiful as we sat down for the festive meal, which in the Scandinavian countries is enjoyed on Christmas Eve with extended family, whenever possible.
After the dinner we would receive Santa’s modest presents. Often there was something self-made, such as a small play table and two chairs for me and my sister, a knitted doll or a pair of warm socks or gloves. The gifts were not fancy but lovingly made. Coloring books and drawing materials were also among my favorites, I remember.
I celebrated the holidays at home until I went away to college. During the college years I used to look for work abroad during the Christmas break together with some of my friends. Maybe an early sign of my quest to learn about other countries and cultures, and definitely good for my wallet and language skills. This of course meant that I no longer spent the holidays at home as we were working throughout the period. Those Christmases were somewhat lonely and very simple, illustrated by one of my “trees” from that time, a pine branch in a champagne bottle.
Then I got married and we started a family. Our son’s birth brought a new dimension to the holiday celebrations. After a few years celebrating at home my career took us to many different countries – that was a beginning of a long stretch of years celebrating the holidays in many different environments and circumstances.
I always remember our first Christmas in Africa. We celebrated it in Zambia. It was very strange not to have snow or at least cold weather when the holidays approached. It didn’t really feel like Christmas!
We could not get hold of a Christmas tree, but had a tiny artificial tree with a few decorations that we had brought with us. We found a German farm and managed to get an excellent smoked ham for Christmas dinner. We enjoyed that dinner with some traditional Scandinavian dishes on our beautiful covered terrace, decorated by nature for the holidays with huge red lilies. Finally the holiday mood arrived!
In Zambia, our son could also enjoy Santa, who came to say hi all the way from Scandinavia wearing a T-shirt, long johns and sunglasses. That year we also had family visiting us from home for the holidays and we celebrated a memorable New Year at Victoria Falls in the very south of the country.
My next special memory is from a Christmas we celebrated in Ethiopia. That was the first time in our years in Africa we tried to get a live Christmas tree. We found a small cypress that I thought looked very nice.
It was tall, but as it happened, the branches were so weak that we had to be very creative to hang our heavy lights and the few ornaments we had brought from home. After hours of strengthening the branches we had our tree all lit up! This was my most memorable tree decorating ever. Still smiling.
In Ethiopia we also organized a traditional Scandinavian Lucia ceremony with our kids singing carols and carrying live candles. Lucia is a prelude to Christmas, always celebrated on December 13th.
My most memorable hotel Christmas, and there are a few, was in the tiny nation of Djibouti. The only Christmas decoration we had in our hotel room was a small light chain around a picture frame. But it didn’t really matter as we spent the days on a small uninhabited island in the red sea. Swimming in the turquoise waters and eating picnic foods prepared for us every morning by the hotel chef. That was a different, but also a very beautiful holiday. No stress, no cooking, no gifts, just peaceful surroundings and lots of relaxation with family and a few friends.
The most memorable holiday season safari was in Uganda in the early 1990s. My sister and her husband were visiting us from Sweden. We embarked on a long safari on Boxing Day and visited three different national parks over a period of about a week, from Bwindi forests in the north to Queen Elizabeth National Park where we celebrated the New Year and finally to Mburo National Park before returning to our home in Kampala.
Another memorable holiday was just before we came to the US. I had been offered a job in Botswana and our family was invited to spend the holidays in Gaborone. That Christmas we stayed in a nice guest house in a completely new city. We hung up some colorful lights and I found most of the ingredients for our traditional Christmas dishes (another post to follow). In walking around in the city we spotted a Christmas tree decorated with empty soda and beer cans! We also stumbled on a Christmas display with a snowman and all in the 90/35 degree heat! He looked a bit tired…
Then, in 1994, we settled in the US and have usually celebrated the holidays at home. The most memorable celebration was a few years ago when our son got married just before Christmas and we had a lot of family from Scandinavia and new in-laws joining us for the holidays. I prepared all our traditional Christmas dishes and we ate in shifts of 12! That was a memorable holiday with so much of the family gathered in our house. That year we decorated a huge Christmas tree in Scandinavian style in our dining room.
After moving to the beach two years ago, we are now fully accustomed to the warm weather, the “green Christmas” and the holiday decorated palm trees swaying in the wind. We have given up the live tree in favor of a nice artificial one…but I still prepare the traditional foods from my childhood to bring in the holiday mood.
Nowadays, I try to leave the stress of shopping and gifting behind and spend more time relaxing and reflecting on the spirit of the holidays. I hope you will be able to celebrate the season with family and friends in the way your heart calls for. And get some quiet time for reflection. Peace.
17 thoughts on “Holidays, Journeys, Traditions and Trees”
True, not spending time with family during the holidays gets very lonely but the champagne bottle with pine branch and decorations still looks like a Christmas tree, I’m sure it brought even a little bit of Christmas cheer. I wish I could go to that many places during Christmas with family of course, and preferably colder place because your right, hot weather doesn’t feel like Christmas. Interesting read! Happy Holidays !
Thanks! Happy Holidays to you too!
ah to enjoy all the different places you’ve been! Christmas is celebrated in the heart no matter where you are. Wonderful pictures.
Thanks Jackie! I agree, it’s all in the heart.
What a beautiful compilation of Christmas memories! How fortunate that you embraced each new experience with such an open mind and now have this scrapbook, of sorts, to share…Thank you! Hugs and blessings to you and your family this magical season.
Thank you! Now, having the memories it’s nice to think back, but you’re right that sometimes a wide open mind was called for to make the best out of the situation. Blessings to you too!
You HAVE had a variety of Christmas places and celebrations. So glad you are sharing the memories with us. I really enjoyed it! Lights strung on palm trees is Christmas to me. 😉
Thanks! We Floridians have our palm trees all lit up now! It’s really lovely, now that I’ve finally got the hang of it 🙂
Amazing! You have had a life I have only read in books. How lovely for you to share your diverse holidays. Thanks Tiny!
Thanks! Yes, they have been diverse…and as I’ve always thought about these holidays past this time of the year, I felt I had to dive into the photo albums…Happy you liked it.
Very Nice Memories. God Blessed.
Thanks! Blessings to you too.
And so, in a way, your Christmas has come full circle; you are enjoying the simplicity and food of your early childhood Christmases. My first Christmas in Africa was in Gaborone, Botswana, 1982. My husband and I married in Gaborone in that year. 🙂 My second Christmas was in Lusaka in 1983.
This is a great post! You really have been all over the world. I did not realize you were of Scandinavian background; my family background is Swedish/Norwegian. I just finished putting up our Scandinavian Christmas tree covered in wood and straw ornaments. It is beautiful but time-consuming! But you have inspired me to do a blog post on Christmas trees, so watch for photos! My husband complains that in 10 years of marriage I have yet to wake him singing with candles on my head and carrying coffee and Lussekatter… 🙂
You still have time to surprise your husband…Lucia is on Saturday! We have a few straw ornaments and “tomtegubbar” from home too. My sister who lives in Stockholm sent us nice Swedish Xmas towels, so now my kitchen looks really homey. I’m from Swedish/Finnish background and my family lives almost 50/50 in both countries. I still have my Swedish pp too. Wishing you a wonderful Holiday Season! God Jul!
When I first studied Swedish it was with a lot of Finns, and when I got to college my Swedish professor said, “You speak Swedish with a Finnish accent!!” 🙂
That’s really funny! But good you learned Swedish. I learned both languages as a child and still speak, write and read both, but by now English is probably my best one.